For all My Darlings, Sweethearts, Dearies……...
What are we, Why are we, What’s close to us, What annoys us, Why people don’t understand us, Why we cry, Are we strong, Why we always look beautiful, Do we need pampering, blah blah blah… If I continue, there would be an umpteen number of questions coming here and still there won’t be anyone who would ever understand ““Soul of a Woman””.
What’s there with all Dad’s, that we Love them so much. Being with them we always feel strong, protected, under a giant shield where no one can dare to harm us. There’s so much of pride while we call ourselves as Dad’s delicate darlings… There is so much of belief, so much of faith when we say - “Dad, I Know, You’ll Always Be There For Me!” and He is there and would never let us fall…
Looking gorgeous is always primacy. She doesn’t need anyone to tell her that she is Beautiful because she knows She is… She looks beautiful when she opens her eye in the morning, she looks beautiful when that hint of yellow sun touches her, she looks beautiful when she is in her night dress, she looks beautiful when angry, she looks beautiful while howling, rather She looks beautiful Every Every Every time… :) She would always know who is watching from which corner of the eye (guys, beware, She knows...:) However she would never get heated rather would have a smile probably a small blush… Yes, she loves Attention and that’s not a crime……….
Every girl feels great when called a fashion icon. She’s thrilled when people would ask, where did you get this watch from, these shoes, that bag, the top, this haircut……… She enjoys being at par with the latest fashion, would walk like a Diva, would stare like a Show stopper and would accept compliments like a Celebrity… She is fond of dressing, she knows to carry herself the best she can, and wishes to be presentable always. Her style statement is just not with the latest fashion, which may be outdated someday; but it is with the confidence she has in her personality with that dress embracing her… Whatever it is, she won’t ever find her wardrobe adequate. Every time she unlocks it, there is nothing to wear, unfortunately true… :) Right girls… Shopping is like our birth right… Hmm, shopping, shopping, wooww, the best thing to do in any mood…
Diamonds are her favorite. A simple ring with a beautiful stone onto it is enough to win her heart. Call her princess and she is all yours. Gifts are precious to her, even though it’s just a small chocolate. She loves to drape into hues of pink. She might frown, however she would be on cloud nine when entitled Sexy. The beauty bones over her neck, the side curves over her waist, the shape of her nails, the shine of her hair, are all a lot important to her. She enjoys taking the lead but moreover would let her man lead her too. You can never count the number of her crushes, the guy in the gym, the one in that parlour, on the third floor, over the fb, in my school, that senior…God, the list would never end… What you guys think only you have the right to discuss us and our assets, Wrong, even we do… ;)
She loves herself. She likes to treat herself with chocolates and ice-creams and would buy flowers for herself. People might call it stupid still she would not forget kissing herself good night in the mirror. God, the mirror would break someday but she won’t stop looking into it. Almost every girl enjoys feeding over chocolates, yummy yummy yummy… She loves all her girl friends, though she might never say it that many times, but she needs them at every moment in her life… She is a lot Jealous and a lot Possessive too. Teddies are like her babies, she adores them, would kiss, hug, talk to it, and sleep holding it, IT meant the Teddy, exclusively… ;) She enjoys laughing loudly and gossiping extremely, it’s her duty to know every single detail of all affairs of every person in her life.
She would like to choose her own life and would live on her terms. Her brain runs behind boundless desires and would always dream to achieve those. She is a real day dreamer. Particularly she is a lot Filmy, have loads of fantasies, though she knows it can happen only over the silver screen still she would imagine to have that in her life. She loves her daily soaps. She gets connected to those screen characters, smile when they are happy and cry when they shed tears. (Remember, the way my SRK cries, he can make your eyes wet anytime). She would show that she is a lot extrovert, but remember there is a lot of shyness, sophistication inside. She is a lot ambitious, let her fly. She may cry for every small reason but she is surely stronger than you. Loss of a small lipstick or breaking of a nail is also a big deal for her. If you show a little care, a bit of love, we get emotionally involved with you. We fall a lot sooner and then it takes ages to come back, to move on.
All girls are Stupid, that’s a proven fact; fine, accepted… But we love our dumbness, we look a lot cuter into that, isn’t it ??? :P Yes, we are bad, very much bad at hardware’s, electronics, so what, we have you guys for that, right.. :) Some women are fond of cooking and some just hate, however every woman can cook well and has her specialty item which no one else can prepare like her. We read Push on the doors and still we Pull it. We enter into the elevator, sometimes chatting with other girls, peeping in the phone or just lost into the thoughts, forgetting that we have to press that button to make the elevator move. Unlike guys, we are a lot shy to discuss the xxx even with our girl friends. We still count numbers using our fingers. We go into a room and as always forget why we were there; all the precious attempts to recall are in vain always.
Her smile can make millions fall (she uses it very well) and her anger can give you blues. Talking over the phone is her passion. She loves to talk, talk and talk, let her. You know her silence is deadly, which has thousand words behind it, and would prick you badly. If she replies saying “Nothing”, it surely means “A lot”. If she says “Im fine”, obviously she is not. If she says “Forget it”, she means “Don’t you dare do that in future”. She won’t mind to be called as dim, slow by her man when there is no third one to listen however would be hurt badly if he calls the same in public. She has those powers to confidently win everyone’s heart and that command to make a Man cry. When it comes to kids, her heart melts like wax. (obviously that candle wala wax my dear… :D)
Has anyone ever read what’s going on in our mind, no, never, why they don’t?? There is so much that is always running under her brains, so much of love, pain, un-exposed emotions. She thinks, feels a lot lot more than what she presents before you. She calculates a lot. Can forget what she ate yesterday but would never forget all those important dates. She would lie at times to hide her pain. She would keep things in her mind, would never tell you what she wants, what she likes; its you, who have to read that silence…….. And if you do, you definitely carve that place in her heart which has the most difficult steps to climb… Lucky Do* :P
She is out of her mind, wanna cry; Let her… What she needs is just a shoulder; someone who would listen, listen her weep and weep lot… let her cry her heart out… There’s a lot she cannot share, there’s a lot pain inside, and it has to come out. Don’t get frustrated, don’t shout on her, let her be the way she needs to be. Remember, if she is using your shoulder, if she is showing her damp face to you, you mean a lot to her. When she opens her mouth, blabbers what she want to, just listen; in the end of conversation you would realize, you have someone very special, very close to you……
To summarize, there’s a lot more that I can write, that I might have missed and there’s a lot in the above lines that may not be acceptable to others. However that’s what my understanding, experience and my feminine instincts speak.
My Dear Ladies………….. Life is a voyage, travelled just once, giving you one chance, so cherish every moment – its precious. Dream what you want to dream, laugh as much laud as you want to, Spill the tears as many times you need to, go where you want to go, act the way you are, be totally what you are, give yourself that freedom, allow those wings to fly, talk as much as shit you like to, flirt with as many guys you want, look as stunning as you can, get down totally with your beers, express you feelings, be a little jealous. Stay happy, Eat healthy, Be protected, Smile always.......... (Smile, It Kills, kills many)
Love her, respect her, adore her, understand her, talk to her, show your care……… She needs nothing else… (Remember nothing means a lot... wink wink)
PS.
Check out the pic of my new chappal, isn’t it supercool… The brand name is Bonjour, using it for the first time… Someday will have all my shoe collection pics here, I’m sure you will love to see those… :)
My New Haircut, my new look, my new glairs… As always Appu is looking stunning, wooow…
You know why ?? Coz Every girl under this globe is beautiful, extremely gorgeous and exceptionally sexy... wink wink
Check out my Watch collection, thought of clicking them individually but avoided since it would have taken a lot of space... I hope you like them all... (I wish I had those guts to put here my UG's collection, seriously even that's superb...... :P :P :P)
1. Paris Hilton, 2. Gucci, 3. Swatch, 4. Tomato, 5. Louis Vuitton
1. Gino Milano, 2. Sonata, 3. Titan Fast Track, 4. Titan Fast Track 5. Swatch
PSS.
Happy to see Namrata eat Non-veg again after a long sanyas of 3 big years. OMG, imagine 3 years. Was that WORth??? Darling, God is not that unkind to see His children not pursuing their favorites in life, just for the sake of gaining something else. Everyone has their part of hardships in life, but are those so hard that we cannot come out of them. Because of one heart break you cannot forget those millions of hearts that would weep if you are gloomy. Accept the challenges, learn, grow, be happy with what you have. Remember, you are special, a lot special, to a lot many people……. Wish you get your best choice and use the knowledge of reading Mills n Boon in the best way :P :) (aur ye sari nasiyat, prayers free mai nahi milti, 5 Bournville ready rakhna…)
PSSS.
The pics in the above post are with some of my roomies when I used to stay in a PG, and one is with my darling baby chikki…
Before I finish – Love You all…. Muaaaazzzzzzzz…… :)